Aiming for glory
Life will present you with people and experiences, to reveal where you’re not free.
The reason we fail, is because we quit.
But the reason we quit, is because it isnt fulfilling.
We’re unfulfilled, when we’re not using our gift.
Our gift is connected to the fulfilment of our heart.
So when we’re not in the heart, we’re not worthy of success.
Because the condition of worth, is literally heartfelt.
Your success, is a posture of heart.
At every level of your life, you’re going to be called to adapt and shift towards a version that will be able to cope with the challenges up ahead. You’ll have to let go of what you once were, in order to evolve and shift to who you need to be in order to fulfil your mission as man amongst men.
Similarly, when we go through trauma, we’re actually being called to serve people in proportion to what we’re overcoming.
So when life has decided to beat you over the head with a situation and take your power away, its telling you that you need to pay attention to what the struggle is. It’s actually giving you the weight of a mission that not many could bare. If you are strong and you are crushed by your situation. You are being called to rise despite your situation. And you will, because that is who you are.
Life has battered me and damaged my body. Life has given me no choice but to feel damned and low and powerless. But I refuse to accept this as my fate. I refuse to be beaten by what is not me. For, my heart is stronger than this. My heart is powerful. And in standing up and being me, despite not being what I want to be, I raise a mirror, for others to see themselves in and give back power to those who feel crushed by life itself.
Even if I no longer feel perfect in my own eyes, I do love myself enough to vouch for me.
And in this statement, I take the position of he who has power over his imperfection. For it is in my decision to vouch, and stand tall, despite my mistakes and failures. It is my decision to rise above the limitations, of what has happened to me. I will not be a victim to my circumstance, I will rise above and conquer because I am powerful, I am great, and I am a leader of men. This is my destiny.
People who tell you to Grind are mislead bastards who will drag you down to their personal inferno, because they don’t know any different. – I have absolutely no shame in saying this.. It’s true.
A man really becomes a man, when his father passes away. Because that is when his glass ceiling to responsibility becomes ultimate under God.
Succeeding is easy, all you have to do is follow steps and iterate until you find the right fit.
Failing is hard, because, it forces you to adapt, to grow, to expand, to suffer, to become…
My father allowed me to fail, repeatedly, in fact he encouraged it, so much so that I spent my 20’s committed to making mistakes and failing as much as I could.
It’s only after the sacrifices of my father than I can be the man I am. It’s only because he permitted me to fail, that I am able to lead. It’s only because he sacrificed everything, that I’m able to be who I am today. I’m only able to be the man I am, because he permitted me, and gave me the space I needed, to test, to fail, to struggle, instead of succeed.
No one talks about the price of success though. No one talks about THE DAMN Price about success though. Because, in order to become you must SACRIFICE. In order to succeed, a part of you must die. In order for you to step into your role as a man, your inner child must be sacrificed, and that part of yourself must be Yanked, and killed within the very center of you.
The mongrels and bastards, and idiotic buffoons who – with stupid pretens – tell you to grind, and force and make money now; before the right time arrives, are half wits, inbreeds, and they will lead you to waste the precious time you have with those most precious while you have those moments in front of you.
The world will always have money, there will always be a form of exchange, there will always be another chance to evolve and change your course.
What cannot be replaced though, you only get one chance. You don’t get another try when their gone. You do however get multiple chances to succeed in business. In fact, you get as many chances as you have breaths and energy…
Always choose what cannot be purchased, over what can be purchased. Your path is not to buy, your path is to be, and if your being brings you to buy, then your path will make that infinitely clear to you. Your path though, is to follow what is right, what is true and what is useful. If your path leads to suffering, then your path will lead you to teaching and healing others. If your path leads you to success too early, you will miss out on the infinite potential for growth that God intended for you.
Here’s something no one will ever tell you. If the door is not open for you, it will be hard to open. Therefore there’s no reason for you to force your way to riches when the time isn’t right. And your singular situation will make that abundantly clear to you, and only you. On the other side, if the time is right, then making that damn leap will seem easy, because it will be the extent of the culmination of everything that you had done before, or the shift in direction will make sense in proportion to the internal development that you have had to go through.
Although, the choice is yours, ultimately, you can decide to pierce through the veil from safety and expose yourself to the world in order to serve them with everything that you are, or you can wait, and catch the next bus, when your energy is fully ready for you to suffer the brunt and weight of the entire world battering against you as you aspire to ascend to your mission. Either way, you will be right, either way you will be wrong. Although, you will have to let go of the way you have been doing things, in order to adapt to a whole new paradigm of life. You will have to let go of what is familiar to you, and accept a new way of functioning.
Your status quo will never be the same once you accept to ascend, once you break the shell, you can’t get back in the egg. You’re out in the light, and that’s that.
Here’s a secret no one will tell you for less than the price of a high ticket seminar… You don’t need to make money right now, you need to fill yourself up to the brim so that the value you bring to the world is 10x, 1000x what it currently is. Sacrificing your now, so you can serve people from a more aligned and truthful place, will serve people more than spitting BS on social media because you think you need to grind to get peoples attention. Forcing yourself to put shit out in the market means you’re making noise and forcing that in everyone’s face when you yourself aren’t even aligned with your higher purpose as a human under God.
The only people who tell you that you ‘need’ to make money right now, are people who are selling something to you that you could ultimately solve yourself somewhere along the line with the help of God. Except they’d rather jump in on the process and give you a short cut so you can solve the problem, now. But the only thing holding you back from ‘accepting your now’ is the emotion and feeling or the pain you’re currently experiencing and if you don’t have the courage to go through that pain on your own, you will have to pay someone who has had the courage to do so.
There is no pressure to make money in life. Society is created in order to support the weakest from falling too low, and supports those who want to make money as infinitely as they want. But ultimately its a choice and must be made upon one’s ability to admit to one’s self what they truly want deep down.
If someone is truly willing, and wants to serve other people and provide service to help them find their way, then… there exist an infinite number of ways to make money, and to ascend to success. And that is where you’ll find people to help you, and God will light the way.
But Grinding, and forcing yourself, no.
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My soul defines my body and mind. My circumstances do not define my soul.
It’s when my soul meets reality, and in proportion to the amount of information I have in my mind which validates the power of my soul, which defines if reality has ascendence over me, or me over it.
So, if I am not defining my mind and the way I perecieve things, from what feels right to me. But define what my soul should endure for worldly gains, then I am draining my soul and cutting off from God. In fact, I am using up my batteries rather than charging them, and that is when I get depleted.
When I am in alignment with God, when I am in alignment with my soul, that abundance starts to flow into my life in unstoppable ways. That I become a source of ideas and life.
But only when I am connected in the right way, not when I am on the wrong road for the wrong reasons.
My name is Cherokee, welcome to my blog.
We craft who we are, and how we experience life. So when we reach moments where we reach a cross roads, we sometimes believe that we must choose hell over heaven, beacuse ‘it makes sense’ to our immediate circumstance.
But then the compounded effect of that compounded circumstance, creates outcomes we don’t want. And bit by bit, the quality of our life gets worse, and we tense up, and begin to live in fear.
Here’s the thing though, our most sacred mission is to apply our focus to getting unstuck where we feel stuck. The original condition or worship, is a ‘ state or condition of worth ‘. When you embrace worship, then, your aim is to embrace your real worth : the divine perfection that resides within you. With a path, we are no longer afraid or worried.
So, know that nothing is written in stone, and change is possible. Even if its intense, unwithering, and recurring; change is possible. If we believe so.
If you seek you shall find the answers It will be alright. You have to function from a place of optimism.
We have two choices, to pick heaven or to pick hell. And this is often reflected in our moments of frustration. People either say “For Christ’s sake” or “For Fuck’s sake”. The language we use is defining of the choices and intentions we use.
So, you might wonder, what is the purpose of Hell?
The purpose of Hell is to purify ourselves for what seems like an “eternity” in limbo. The point is to transmute our struggles into lessons to teach to people. Think about the purpose of fire under a pan full of water. The hell is the fire, the transmutation is the boiling of the water, and the struggles is the cold water, and the the end product of that transmutation is hot water for tea, for a bath, for boiling an egg, or whatever…
It seems like an eternity in “numb” limbo beacuse that is the consequence of not wanting to feel fully or listen to our higher self.
When our body says “this is boring”, or “I’m tired” and we push through boundaries, it seems hell is the price we pay for the disrespecting of our natural healthy preservation limitations.
And this is why some people get rich, but then cannot be happy. They didn’t listen to their natural higher wisdom and pushed through despite their knowing… out of fear.
Hell is the compounding effect of what doesn’t fulfil us from a place of fear or lack. It’s chosing Matter over mind. Things over Feelings.
The purpose of Heaven though is rather different.
The path to heave, is all heaven. Because, for one, there is no pushing or forcing, action is taken from a place of harmony and peace; knowing full well, that the outcome that we are working towards will come to be.
Each step comes from a place of fulfilment and higher knowing, and this ensures continual enjoyment during our journey.
“The quieter you become, the more you’re able to hear.” – Kali Wallpaper.
Taking action from a grounded place of peace, beacuse we enjoy what we do, creates a form of healthy sustainability, which we can easily endure over time – it isn’t much of an effort.
So, if we compound the heavely path over time, we will begin to nurture, then generate renewal of ourselves while being guided by heavenly presense and protected for our Good effort.
As Oprah said, and requoted from the bible, we serve from a place of fullness. We fill ourselves up so that we can serve others with the overflow. We cannot serve from an empty cup. Your self comes first.
Only what fulfils us in a peaceful way can sustain us over the long run. If you try filling yourself up with detrimental reference, you will self-destruct at some point, because the alchmey of wrong references cannot be accumulated without creating nefarious “chemical reactions”. Think of heaven as compounds which work well, while hell as compounds with potential to create explosive reactions like oxygen and fuel in a motor. If we don’t have a balance between states of peace and states of ‘reactions’ we are dominated by a reactionary life.
So, it’s imporant to compound (in the sense of accumulation), joyful substances with consciousness. Which is the complete opposite of the Hustle culture, which is to Force through everything even though its empty!
We cannot serve from an empty cup.
Abundance or Lack?
Doing things from a place of fear or lack, will always create a mirror effect of that sentiment or intention somewhere in our lives / environment.
Doing things from a place of trust and faith, will always create a mirror effect of that sentiment or intention somewhere in our lives.
“For to everyone who has will more be given, and he will have an abundance. But from the one who has not, even what he has will be taken away.” – Mathew 25:29.
So making decisions and commmitiing to “doing things” because they make money is a certain way to enter a hell of your own.
Doing things because you like them, and you enjoy them, will create and purify you in the right way. Because the things you do provide a healthy sense of self reference (our bag of references with which we view the world).
And its with our compounded quality of self references that we percieve ourselves and our lives and those around us.
The choice is to pick the feeling, the emotion we want to grow, the enjoyment, the excitement.
NOT to pick because of the things we want, because chosing the things over the quailty of emotion equates to matter over mind, which is Hell over Heaven. Hell is picking things for what we can get. And we only want something from a place of Lack.
Heaven is picking what gives us energy in a worthy way. Heaven is the compounding of what we enjoy over time.
” We’re not out for the pleasure of the achievement, but the fulfilment of the journey.” – Cherokee Goldberg
When we were younger – yes you too, I know this is a matter that applies for every single one of us – we spent a good deal of time in school. Wonderful matter! We got to learn subjects… ok yada yada yada school… I won’t bore you with an overhyped setup, you want the subject…
Well, as I was saying, in school, we learned how to conform to an authority who’d define what we needed to do. When they said jump, we jumped, just like our parents. When a police man says jump, we jump, because we’ve been well trained to agree with authority.
Except, when there are divergent people like me who question everything and disagree when things don’t make sense. That frustrates the heck out of authorities… It also makes it damn near impossible to agree blindly with any form of authority, matters must be questioned. Cracks must be found, loop holes must be discovered…
This is all nice, but when we reach a point when we need to do what a coach or someone who’s actually trying to help us – but isn’t – steps in and defines certain ways of doing things. Sadly it doesn’t work. We’re left with stupid timelines, and ways that don’t fit in with our unique autodidactic way of functioning.
The autodidactic personality is not a stupid person by any means, its simply that they need to come to their own conclusion of how what they’re learning fits in with their current perspective and concept of life – pretty much like all of us – as they tend to have singular ways of seeing things. If you try to fit a square into a round hole it won’t.
So, we have to redefine reality, or at least we have to decide to go at the beat of our own drum and do what works best for us. Running a bit faster to fit in with a pack we don’t always agree with isn’t necessarily best. Why? Because, even if we think that we’re upping our ability, we’re dependant on an extrinsic source of motivation and the only source of real drive should be the intrinsic motor as its where we get our energy from in the first place.
Here’s the thing though, when we have someone above us, who is in a better place, and we aspire to be like them, the next logical step is to model them, which means that we strive to become like them. But if we’re modelling someone who doesn’t respect themselves, only their material gains, we’ll quickly feel the brunt of it. So, piano piano… take modelling with a pinch of salt, for what applies and works for you, put aside what doesn’t, perhaps revisit it later, but someone else’s modus operandi is intimate to them. It doesn’t mean it fits well with us.
Instead, see where you are on your journey and see where you are going. And see who says, and what they say and do, and observe to see if it fits well with ‘who you currently are’ in proportion to where you want to go and become.
I often find it tempting to simply model cell for cell the entity I’m enticed by, wanting to become a mirror – or at least finding it enjoyable to see someone who is a mirror of what I currently am… This is an amazing thing, because it means that we pick up on the every perspective we have, and kind of like a chameleon we adapt to what we see, and become part of the group we’re in, for better or for worse.
Making a quick list of what we don’t want to focus on.
Making a quick List of what we don’t want to do.
Making a quick List of what we want to do.
Making a quick List of what we want to focus on.
All of this in proportion to the direction we’re striving to go in.
Everything is a matter of proportion. What is important to us? What is no longer important?
Is pleasing authority the right move? Is becoming the authority on yourself important?
Choose carefully.
Don’t do things for others to get their recognition. Aim instead to focus on doing things because they serve a utilitarian purpose and do that excellently.
Spend your time focussing instead, on being as effective as possible, in creating and solving their pain points so that you can help as many people as possible. Once you have started your journey to produce the best solution possible.
You must spend your time focussing on implementing multiple iterations to continually improve the solution and its applied form over time through trial and error.
The point is to become the best by going deep into that Area, and then once that has been achieved, to go deeper and find areas which surround that one area, which will support and improve the core solution offer.
Don’t let anyone remove your challenges. Your challenges and struggles are valuable, as they provide lessons and understandings for you.
Why do I say this?
Your lessons and understandings are monetizable. And if someone removes your itch, they also prevent problem solving. Which in turn prevents you from creating a solution that you can then sell to others who have that pain point.
So, when someone sells you a fast track to the summit of a mountain, don’t take it. Because once you’re at the top, thats it. While you’re struggling up, is the moment you grow. If someone helicopters you out of your struggle, you don’t get to evolve through the journey and the result is that we end up with a bunch of spoilt brats at the top of the mountain, spitting nonesense and teaching all the wrong ways under the pretext that they have ‘succeeded financially’ so they are successful.
A lot of people with money are not successful, in fact they failed massively, because they didn’t meet their purpose on the way to the summit and settled for riches and for some reason, a recurring, loud and angry voice…
Don’t forget your soul in the process.
A business’s soul purpose is to expand your own ability to serve others and grow as you advance in service. If your sole purpose is to get money, you fail, because you disregard people and treat them like shit in order to get what you want.
(Notice I used the word Soul and Sole. One is universal service, the other is self-serving.)
There’s a misnommer in life, where we believe that because we are a certain way, and because the identity we have right now is in alignement with where we are right now, we feel comfortable. So, we don’t change.
Though, sometimes people want more. So, they break out of the box they’ve been living in.
So, they take some form of leap of faith and … move to the next biggest town. All too often I see people who want to change their life, so they take off and end up repeating the exact same life only a few miles down the road.
This is because they don’t change what they do. They simply push what they do along the road, find a nice spot they believe will give them [name any desirable outcome], and set up camp, only to find out that they’re dating the carbon copy of their ex, working the exact same job they had before, making the exact same amount of money and so on.
Copy, paste. Simple.
Though, it never occurs to anyone to take a look under the bonnet. And in doing so, they’d discover that the patterns they think on a daily basis tend to be the way they live and experience life.
We do not attract what we want in life, we attract what we are. And who we are starts with what we spend our time thinking about. Because, the extent of our thoughts is how we feel, and when we feel a certain way, our actions tend to mirror that. (Someone who’d excited to do something will have more energy than someone who dreads it, and that starts in the thoughts). But the natural extension of our actions, is that we become, through trial and error, what we repeatedly do.
Change your focus, change your thoughts. Change your thoughts, change your emotions. Change your emotions, change your actions. Change your actions, change your life.
But somethings missing, that no one is talking about right now.
How do you know where to focus? You haven’t decided what you want, why you want it, or how you’ll go about getting it.
When we define what we are to become in the future, it becomes easy to go towards becoming that. Its very hard to reach a goal you can’t see or haven’t set.
Definition.
But definition is the most difficult part, because it implies we need to think, and take responsibility for what we want. We have to become conscious and design what we’re goign to fight for. And when we’re “clueless”, writing down a single goal to strive for is actually rather hard, especially when the metric for what is possible is our current state of reality.
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