Are you fear based or love based?

Here’s the thing. When you decide to go into life, it doesn’t matter what you do, so long as you do it from a place of fulfilment and process. I’ve been harking on this for years.. In 2022, I wrote a series of newsletters and articles that I didn’t publish, but had multiple realisations, only to then get reminded of the extent of what I had written and the importance of sharing it. So here goes.

When you go into life, and decide to go forward towards something, we have essentially two choices. The first, is to reject our present moment, and so we reject the gift within it. The possibility to take action from a place of fulfilment.. I know, I’ve said this multiple times, even in my book… And on the other side… taking action from a place of fulfilment and gift. When we act from a place of fulfilment and gift, what happens is, it fills us up, it enlightens us, it fills our energetic circuits, and shifts us from a place of fear and lack to a place of abundance and possibility. By making this micro shift, we start to fill up our energetic reserves and we start to feel optimistic. This is due to the activity. I’ll explain.

When we strive for a future from a place of lack, we actually project to a future from a place of lack. Our process drains us, so we can only see a future where we’ll be drained somehow. The future cannot be bright. On the otherside, if our process fills us up, we can’t help but be optimistic about the future we’re going towards, because the more we go towards a future from this point of process ( it fills us up ) the better and brighter it will seem to us.

Essentially, we project the state we have from our daily process. If our present state, and ability to accept how we feel and the effects of the process on us, are positive, aligned with our gift, we align with a dream type future which we translate as ‘purpose’.

If our present state – right here and right now – is negative, because we’re not grateful for what we have, we reject our natural gifts, and our process depletes us.. in other words we decide to go to work to get money so that we can be valued or buy things or go places that will value us so that we can be loved… well the inevitable outcome will be that of a hellish future we want to get away from. And the outcome of that will be procrastination, as a result of you not wanting to go forward to that future. You’ll literally undermine your efforts at every turn, no matter how disciplined you are. And even if you don’t undermine yourself and manage to create output… the universe around you, events will happen, which will knock you back into alignment with the track you’re supposed to be on.

Solution to your dream life? Start by feeling well, where you are, by doing things you love, where you are. If you enjoy where you are, life becomes fluid and easy. If you hate where you are, its because you hate how you feel, which is a result of “DOING” what you hate. If you love how you feel, it’s a result of DOING what you love. DUH..