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When the master is ready, the pupil will appear.

I’ve been going though a significant amount of trauma since 2024, but I just understood something, I can only attract the people I need once I’ve overcome my trauma.

The reason being that, if you break an egg from the outside, you remove the life, and the life within your trauma bubble is essentially in formation as you evolve through your trial and error to cope with it.

You cannot lead from a place of being in the shell, because people cannot see if you are in teacher mode, or if you are in need of a mentor.

The truth is, its up to you. But, knowing myself, the truth is that I need to become the mentor. And its only by reaching the point where one can get out of one’s shell that one can become the teacher for others. Before then, nothing will work, the energy will be off and no matter how many ads, vsls etc that you make, you won’t be able to make any money or attract any clients. Its all energetic.

However, you need to remain consistent. You need to become extremely clear about creating momentum proportional to one single thing and if you don’t you risk going round in circles. Not understanding why people aren’t interested in what you’re saying, not liking, etc.

You can’t shine, from under a cloud. And that is why you can only attract the client from the position of being a master. And you can only be the master, if you master the turmoil keeping you in your bubble. You can escape, but you’ll have to then take that same bubble elsewhere. So you need to build your internal infrastructure to help other people, and that can only come from a place of having built one to get out of your personal bubble/egg.

The reason we don’t break the egg and let the chick break the shell first, is because its about strength and struggle. If you break the shell first, you remove the struggle, and if you remove the struggle, you remove the process that gives strength, and resilience. If you have no strength, you cannot break the bubble from within. You have to keep on struggling until you can break your personal struggle from within.

Life will give you everything that you need in order to succeed, where ever you are. You don’t have to go to the other side of the world in order to succeed. You just have to create momentum to get to the point of success. IF, and only IF, you’re committed to succeeding.

You may be able to succeed from the outside, if you’re making a boiled egg, but if you’re wanting to succeed and let life, you must let life expand first. And if it expands, then and only then can you come out the other-side and claim to be the success that you are.

We often think in terms of who will guide us. But, sometimes we have to overcome things that are so significant, that we have no choice but to come out the other side and teach others.

And when we do, we have the right to go anywhere in the world.

The troubling thing about this article is that, its also true from the outside in. If you want to succeed you can take action and force the interior to become like you want to become by being around the right people.

You don’t have to run or panic, or struggle externally, but you do need to remain consistent, internally or externally, and then, you will be a success.

All paths lead to Rome, and all paths lead to God, the only choice is essentially, knowing what kind of path you’d like to take, to get there. What is your path?

Your choice is the path. And your level of success is the amount of consistency you have in the believe around the obtention of what you’re aiming for. Because you are essentially stacking, and compounding the intention and action to succeed. If you stack that intention overtime you become successful, because you are successful in intention over and over until you become that.

So its important to define the emotion, the state you want to replicate from your internal state of ‘abyss’ even if it seems scary, even if it seems lonely, even if you feel broken. You will prevail, its a matter of time though. You see, you need to discover the rules of the game first, and if you can discover the rules of the game, you can figure out the parameters of how you can win, and win you must.

You need to Win the game, and when you do so, you will have recognition and acclaim.

But, only because you have walked the impossible path, because you have trail blazed your way to overcome your personal trauma and rise to lead others through theirs.

Don’t escape.

Grow. Expand, learn, understand. Learn to see within the mundane, if you cannot have the superbly superficial. Learn to succeed where you are. As Walter Wattles said back in the day, you must outgrow where you are. If you are to leave, to get a better position, you must outgrow your current circumstance. But expansion must come first, and success will only come from your personal struggle.

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Are you fear based or love based?

Here’s the thing. When you decide to go into life, it doesn’t matter what you do, so long as you do it from a place of fulfilment and process. I’ve been harking on this for years.. In 2022, I wrote a series of newsletters and articles that I didn’t publish, but had multiple realisations, only to then get reminded of the extent of what I had written and the importance of sharing it. So here goes.

When you go into life, and decide to go forward towards something, we have essentially two choices. The first, is to reject our present moment, and so we reject the gift within it. The possibility to take action from a place of fulfilment.. I know, I’ve said this multiple times, even in my book… And on the other side… taking action from a place of fulfilment and gift. When we act from a place of fulfilment and gift, what happens is, it fills us up, it enlightens us, it fills our energetic circuits, and shifts us from a place of fear and lack to a place of abundance and possibility. By making this micro shift, we start to fill up our energetic reserves and we start to feel optimistic. This is due to the activity. I’ll explain.

When we strive for a future from a place of lack, we actually project to a future from a place of lack. Our process drains us, so we can only see a future where we’ll be drained somehow. The future cannot be bright. On the otherside, if our process fills us up, we can’t help but be optimistic about the future we’re going towards, because the more we go towards a future from this point of process ( it fills us up ) the better and brighter it will seem to us.

Essentially, we project the state we have from our daily process. If our present state, and ability to accept how we feel and the effects of the process on us, are positive, aligned with our gift, we align with a dream type future which we translate as ‘purpose’.

If our present state – right here and right now – is negative, because we’re not grateful for what we have, we reject our natural gifts, and our process depletes us.. in other words we decide to go to work to get money so that we can be valued or buy things or go places that will value us so that we can be loved… well the inevitable outcome will be that of a hellish future we want to get away from. And the outcome of that will be procrastination, as a result of you not wanting to go forward to that future. You’ll literally undermine your efforts at every turn, no matter how disciplined you are. And even if you don’t undermine yourself and manage to create output… the universe around you, events will happen, which will knock you back into alignment with the track you’re supposed to be on.

Solution to your dream life? Start by feeling well, where you are, by doing things you love, where you are. If you enjoy where you are, life becomes fluid and easy. If you hate where you are, its because you hate how you feel, which is a result of “DOING” what you hate. If you love how you feel, it’s a result of DOING what you love. DUH..

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Your mission is to stand.

At every level of your life, you’re going to be called to adapt and shift towards a version that will be able to cope with the challenges up ahead. You’ll have to let go of what you once were, in order to evolve and shift to who you need to be in order to fulfil your mission as man amongst men.

Similarly, when we go through trauma, we’re actually being called to serve people in proportion to what we’re overcoming.

So when life has decided to beat you over the head with a situation and take your power away, its telling you that you need to pay attention to what the struggle is. It’s actually giving you the weight of a mission that not many could bare. If you are strong and you are crushed by your situation. You are being called to rise despite your situation. And you will, because that is who you are.

Life has battered me and damaged my body. Life has given me no choice but to feel damned and low and powerless. But I refuse to accept this as my fate. I refuse to be beaten by what is not me. For, my heart is stronger than this. My heart is powerful. And in standing up and being me, despite not being what I want to be, I raise a mirror, for others to see themselves in and give back power to those who feel crushed by life itself.

Even if I no longer feel perfect in my own eyes, I do love myself enough to vouch for me.
And in this statement, I take the position of he who has power over his imperfection. For it is in my decision to vouch, and stand tall, despite my mistakes and failures. It is my decision to rise above the limitations, of what has happened to me. I will not be a victim to my circumstance, I will rise above and conquer because I am powerful, I am great, and I am a leader of men. This is my destiny.