Jump and fly, God will catch you

People who tell you to Grind are mislead bastards who will drag you down to their personal inferno, because they don’t know any different. – I have absolutely no shame in saying this.. It’s true.

A man really becomes a man, when his father passes away. Because that is when his glass ceiling to responsibility becomes ultimate under God.

Succeeding is easy, all you have to do is follow steps and iterate until you find the right fit.

Failing is hard, because, it forces you to adapt, to grow, to expand, to suffer, to become…

My father allowed me to fail, repeatedly, in fact he encouraged it, so much so that I spent my 20’s committed to making mistakes and failing as much as I could.

It’s only after the sacrifices of my father than I can be the man I am. It’s only because he permitted me to fail, that I am able to lead. It’s only because he sacrificed everything, that I’m able to be who I am today. I’m only able to be the man I am, because he permitted me, and gave me the space I needed, to test, to fail, to struggle, instead of succeed.

No one talks about the price of success though. No one talks about THE DAMN Price about success though. Because, in order to become you must SACRIFICE. In order to succeed, a part of you must die. In order for you to step into your role as a man, your inner child must be sacrificed, and that part of yourself must be Yanked, and killed within the very center of you.

The mongrels and bastards, and idiotic buffoons who – with stupid pretens – tell you to grind, and force and make money now; before the right time arrives, are half wits, inbreeds, and they will lead you to waste the precious time you have with those most precious while you have those moments in front of you.

The world will always have money, there will always be a form of exchange, there will always be another chance to evolve and change your course.

What cannot be replaced though, you only get one chance. You don’t get another try when their gone. You do however get multiple chances to succeed in business. In fact, you get as many chances as you have breaths and energy…

Always choose what cannot be purchased, over what can be purchased. Your path is not to buy, your path is to be, and if your being brings you to buy, then your path will make that infinitely clear to you. Your path though, is to follow what is right, what is true and what is useful. If your path leads to suffering, then your path will lead you to teaching and healing others. If your path leads you to success too early, you will miss out on the infinite potential for growth that God intended for you.

Here’s something no one will ever tell you. If the door is not open for you, it will be hard to open. Therefore there’s no reason for you to force your way to riches when the time isn’t right. And your singular situation will make that abundantly clear to you, and only you. On the other side, if the time is right, then making that damn leap will seem easy, because it will be the extent of the culmination of everything that you had done before, or the shift in direction will make sense in proportion to the internal development that you have had to go through.

Although, the choice is yours, ultimately, you can decide to pierce through the veil from safety and expose yourself to the world in order to serve them with everything that you are, or you can wait, and catch the next bus, when your energy is fully ready for you to suffer the brunt and weight of the entire world battering against you as you aspire to ascend to your mission. Either way, you will be right, either way you will be wrong. Although, you will have to let go of the way you have been doing things, in order to adapt to a whole new paradigm of life. You will have to let go of what is familiar to you, and accept a new way of functioning.
Your status quo will never be the same once you accept to ascend, once you break the shell, you can’t get back in the egg. You’re out in the light, and that’s that.

Here’s a secret no one will tell you for less than the price of a high ticket seminar… You don’t need to make money right now, you need to fill yourself up to the brim so that the value you bring to the world is 10x, 1000x what it currently is. Sacrificing your now, so you can serve people from a more aligned and truthful place, will serve people more than spitting BS on social media because you think you need to grind to get peoples attention. Forcing yourself to put shit out in the market means you’re making noise and forcing that in everyone’s face when you yourself aren’t even aligned with your higher purpose as a human under God.

The only people who tell you that you ‘need’ to make money right now, are people who are selling something to you that you could ultimately solve yourself somewhere along the line with the help of God. Except they’d rather jump in on the process and give you a short cut so you can solve the problem, now. But the only thing holding you back from ‘accepting your now’ is the emotion and feeling or the pain you’re currently experiencing and if you don’t have the courage to go through that pain on your own, you will have to pay someone who has had the courage to do so.

There is no pressure to make money in life. Society is created in order to support the weakest from falling too low, and supports those who want to make money as infinitely as they want. But ultimately its a choice and must be made upon one’s ability to admit to one’s self what they truly want deep down.

If someone is truly willing, and wants to serve other people and provide service to help them find their way, then… there exist an infinite number of ways to make money, and to ascend to success. And that is where you’ll find people to help you, and God will light the way.

But Grinding, and forcing yourself, no.

I help men to overcome porn addiction, trauma, turn their life around and then I help them create financial freedom…

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Finding your purpose

I’m a hard worker, and in addition to that, I know I’m smart. But no amount of power or speed will get me to where I’m going if I have no clue where I need to go, and this bugs me.

Because, no matter how much I search, no matter what I strive for, the ‘AHA!’ moment of finding my purpose never arises. No matter how much I strive for it, no matter what I do, I never seem to get the ‘OMG, this is the only thing I want to do for the rest of my life’ type of understanding. In fact, the only time I had that was when I was delusional and addicted and that was in proportion to the pain I was experiencing which was so unbareable and difficult to undo, that finding something to counter balance what I was going through seemed like the only solution I had. It wasn’t. I indulged… Ahh, the decadence of abandoning one’s self to something that knocks our socks off!

But, here’s the issue with that… It’s a downhill road, and no matter how fast we go, we will end up at the bottom, and that means depleated, sick, or dead. And that’s not an outcome anyone wants.

So, what’s the alternative, you ask?

Going upwards. Going upwards is great, except for one thing, when you’re struggling with replacing false beliefs, its rather difficult to go in any direction than the one those canon balls tell you do, down. Because of the weight.

Going upwards is great, its virtuous, its enjoyable, and what’s more, we gain strength and we remove layers of outdated stuff the further we go.

So, how do we find purpose?

This seems to be THE question.

I’ve found that one’s purpose, is at a crossroads between Who we need to serve with our gifts, and the standards we aspire to while using our gifts to serve.

Our purpose, is essentially the dent we want to leave in the world. Or better yet, reparing the dent others have left.

I like to think about purpose as a horizon we go towards but never reach. Like a north star, we go towards it, as a guiding light, but never do we reach it. It’s a form of direction, which keeps us moving, which keeps us growing, which keeps us going in ‘the right direction’.

If our vision is our What, our purpose is our Why.

So, your purpose is essentially the why that is deep within us, which is connected to the star we’re chasing. Like a magnet with only two polarities, we humans have infinite polarities, and our purposes in life stem from that inner why that gets us moving.

So, when we define our gift (what is right here that we can do really really well and fulfills us), and when we know why we have that gift and to who we can give it to make their life better, we discover our lifes purpose. And our lifes purpose can evolve, just as our skills and gifts can be developped over time, we can evolve from serving one type of tribe, to another over time. But, we’re not fixed like tree’s, we can evolve. And of course, when we’ve pursued a sunset for a while, at some point, we realise the solution we’ve found for our problem, we can automate it and then actually change direction towards a new destination.

All the best,

Cherokee Goldberg